Anonymous: Unhealthy to some may be beneficial to others. The same how certain people are good for some people but toxic for others. Please don’t view shippers as a generalization and assume that they’re all the same. I’m very sorry that you were hurt, but it’s not your call as to what is healthy or unhealthy for someone based on your experience rather than theirs. (Except self harm because that’s a given.) However I do hope you stop getting harassed because that’s not fair to you, but it’s not to them too

Indulging in an abusive ship to recreate your trauma is never beneficial. 10/10 experts agree retraumatizing yourself isnt helpful.


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